Be a Friend Gift Set

A limited edition Relume "be a friend" candle sits on a coffee table next to a plant. The Way of Befriending book, is also on the table in the background.

The Way of Befriending, a book by Parfait Bassalé, sits on a coffee table with a 10 ounce Relume candle and a plant.

Parfait Bassalé sits in a chair, smiling. A guitar and indoor plant are next to the chair.

Be a Friend Gift Set

Price:

$51.00

Join the befriending movement with our Be a Friend gift set.

This special collaboration gift set includes a personalized autographed copy of Parfait Bassalé’s new book, The Way of Befriending and a limited edition ‘Be a Friend’ 10 ounce candle in our signature Moonlight scent.

Parfait is our Co-Founder Karima’s husband. Born in Benin, Parfait holds a master’s degree in conflict resolution from Portland State University. His work as a storyteller and singer-songwriter has inspired us – and thousands of others – to intentionally befriend people across differences. Befriending others is the foundation of Relume. Let this gift set inspire you to find your next friend.

In The Way of Befriending, you’ll find:

Personal storytelling, reflections, and practical insights.
Reflective prompts and practical tools for befriending.
A multimedia experience including original music and lyrics by Parfait.

Candle Features

Moonlight is a creamy scent featuring notes of vanilla and orchid
Natural soy wax produced from US grown soy beans
Wicks made from cotton
Paraffin-, Lead-, Zinc-, Phthalate-free wax and fragrance
Recycled Spanish glass jar: width 3.4”, height 3.5”

If you’re purchasing this as a gift, include your friend’s name in the customer notes at checkout so Parfait can personalize their autograph.

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About our jars

Our jars are made from recycled Spanish glass, and are reusable! After you’ve burned your candle, remove the wax, wash thoroughly, and enjoy the jar for years to come.